Dating a borderline personality
Men date Borderlines because women with BPD are usually attractive. Inexperienced men jump through all the hoops because they are desperate for her. We all want to fall in love with a beautiful women. Some still refuse to admit they have aren’t perfect ;) Anyway, BPD is a Cluster B personality disorder that is rather common these days from my experience.According to a quick Google search, Borderline Personality Disorder is “characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior.” I have dated dozens and dozens of women over the years.One of my favorite quotes is this: “A woman gives you shit to make sure you the shit.” How will you react? So, I suggest you do some research and get some advice from someone like Rick next time you find yourself in a relationship with someone who has BPD” – Carrie === Let that email be an inspiration for you. You’ll find yourself chasing her and guilt-tripping her if you don’t. She gave you many hints of the mindsets you need to make a BPD relationship work. But real, actual love and compatibility is impossible without strong, independent mindsets. This is why the BPD label doesn’t matter at the end of the day. Understanding this fact is all you need to be successful. When she pulls away, she wants to see how you’ll react. But, this week she doesn’t have those same feelings for whatever reason. Now I’m not going to sit here and say that you’re 100% responsible for your relationship not working. However, understand that you are 100% responsible for yourself. The attitude you see all around you is to point fingers and blame others. This is why a healthy, fulfilling relationship is a rare sight. Therefore, I focus on teaching the mindsets that are best for BPD relationships. This is true even if she doesn’t know it on a subconscious level.