Dating moving in
While that desire is totally understandable, it should be a mild desire.
For men and women who move too fast in dating, they really, really want to meet their new date’s friends or family.
They want to set plans for barbecues, dinners or social activities where they can meet all the major players in their date’s life – and they want to do it quickly.
Why you do it: Wanting to meet friends and family very early on is a sign that you want to blend your life quickly with your new date’s life.
As a parent, for example, I can’t tell you the number of times each week I tell my 5 and 7-year-old kids how smart, sweet and all-around awesome they are.
If you grow up with that praise on a daily basis, odds are that you’ll carry those positive internal voices with you into adulthood – and into your romantic relationships.
In other words, because you don’t have much information, you decide to fill in the blanks by using your own imagination.
Before we go: Above all, your approach to dating should be measured and cautious as you meet someone new, taking the time to gather information over a period of time to determine if this individual makes a good personality fit with yours.