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However, problems often arise in your relationship when you focus so heavily on logic that you forget your partner’s emotional needs.Like in all other realms of life, you are a GO GETTER when it comes to dating.“Women just want men to listen to them and not solve problems,” or “Men just want to be alone in their ‘man cave’ when they have problems.” Since there is definitely a gender skew in personality types, these stereotypes play out often enough that we take them for granted.Real trouble surfaces when we’re a personality type not common to our gender but we’re still expected to play out the normal ‘script’.In any romantic or pair bond relationship, there are myriad ways that a couple communicates to each other. we’re looking for and sending endless signals to and from our mate.And while there are a million things each person says (both verbally and non-verbally) every day, it could be argued that there really is only one thing we’re actually looking for: the answer to the question, “Do you love me?You are not the one who will fall hard and fast in a passionate love affair.When it comes to your romantic life, your propensity toward frank honesty and subsequent disregard for the more sentimental flirtations that come along with the dating game are your biggest weaknesses.
You take relationships extremely seriously and are loyal to your partner.
Since we all do this (to some extent), in a romantic relationship this can be disastrous.
On some level we ‘get’ that other people see the world differently than we do, but without a solid model these differences end up becoming gender stereotypes.
For example, we might have a “Words of Affirmation” Love Language and we’ll always feel good when someone praises us. Does it match our internal ‘list’ of important things?
For example, one woman might be over to moon to hear her husband praise her beauty to his friends, and another woman might feel marginalized. ” Here’s where it gets tricky: each personality type asks it in a slightly different way, and concurrently answers it in a slightly different way.In our program “Personality Types in Marriage & Relationship” we discuss how different personality types both ask the question, “Do you love me? All FJs use the mental process “Harmony” to make decisions.