Problems with dating a beautiful woman
If they follow what society tells them to do, they often end up "good guys" who are taken advantage of, mistreated, and disrespected.
In contrast, if they follow more "assertive" biological imperatives, they are labeled "jerks" and "players"—who may get sexual gratification, but not love or respect from what they would consider a "good woman".
Many of these tactics, however, primarily attract women who are focused on short-term flings with attractive men (see here).
Therefore, the relationship needs of the men using this strategy may be less fulfilled in the long run.2) Partnering Carefully - another strategy adopted by some men is to adhere to social norms and become a "good guy" or even "domestic partner". However, men who follow this strategy should pick their partner carefully.
We are all motivated to seek out rewards and avoid punishments (Skinner, 1974).
The men that I speak with (and who commented on my last post) lament about being in a "no win situation" in modern dating.
Changing social norms has allowed few avenues by which they can be both acceptable as a relationship partner and attractive as a sex partner.