Being an assertive, dominant woman who is also a femme lesbian makes me a weird sort of partner, and makes finding a significant other very hard.Women who date women tend to be radical idealists, which I find annoying.It’s also possible for people to take it in turns to be the submissive one, which is known as ‘switching’.Being submissive can be limited to during sex, when the submissive partner might be on the receiving end of masochism, bondage or other forms of domination.“I am not hesitant about trying new things with someone I trust…and if I can be in control (the choices are mine to make).I can tell within a few minutes if I’ll like it or not.I think it made me very practical about meeting my physical/hormonal needs and not buying into sexist thought, as a woman.” 4.“As a ENTJ I’m always in a position of leadership or wanting to be in control of my life, in bed I find it relaxing (and awesome) to be the opposite and have someone else be in control, although it is hard to find partners that are willing to be dominant in bed and maybe more submissive in the other aspects of the relationship.” 5.
It can be hard to understand why another person wants to be submissive if that’s not something you’re personally interested in.
With a recent experience, I realize that I still have a greater attraction to the opposite sex, but my attraction to the same sex isn’t incidental, which made me realize that identify as more bisexual.” 17.
“I think being an ENTJ makes me more confident in bed, but I like to know ahead of time that we’ll be having sex.
I have yet to find a person I would date, because honestly, I’m a lesbian who can’t stand most lesbians my age.” 7. I’m very happy to try almost anything once but if I don’t like it then you won’t find me doing it again.
My personality has made me try to ignore feelings related to sex for a long time – but now I recognize that feelings are always involved in sex for me and that’s ok, it’s not all physical.” 11.However, some submissive don’t limit their submission to within the bedroom, and will be a ‘lifestyle’ submissive.