Tips for internet dating for women
You don’t want a man who’s not willing to put in a little effort to meet you. Men may post pics from high school because they’re too embarrassed to post recent pics that show they’re balding and overweight.
It’s silly, because clearly, you’re going to find that out when you meet him, but he’s hoping you’ll have fallen madly for him by then and will overlook the little white lie of photos that don’t quite tell the whole story.
You’re a sexy, rockin’ lady, and any man would be happy to have the opportunity to take you out.
I wish I could say that every man who tries to get your attention online will be a quality dude, but the fact is, there are a lot of scummy men out there.
Here are a few examples of what I’m talking about when I say you need to prequalify him: You want to have had a phone call before you meet (then you can tell if he has an annoyingly shrill voice and save yourself the trouble of meeting him in person).
You want a man who asks you questions, not just talks about himself.
Also, keep in mind that texting really isn’t the best way to get to know someone, so your goal should be to get on the phone with this guy. Some sites prioritize the profiles of people who are online, so if you spend more time online, you’ll get more results.
Until you meet a guy in person, you can’t know if you have chemistry.
But remember: While a few tips ago I told you not to spend too much time online with this guy before meeting him, I absolutely encourage you to have prerequisites for you to decide a man is actually worth meeting.