Women dating ugly men
On the contrary—I decided that his low hotness was a great counterpoint to his high Q rating.
It didn’t matter how successful and sought-after he was.
I haven’t seen Movie Maker in five years, but recently I caught up with my girlfriend again. I’ve fallen for ugly guys for a much more obvious reason: They’re grateful, which makes for better sex.
I once dated a guy so heavy he practically killed me every time he got on top, but he told me I was beautiful and he could never keep his hands off me, which I loved. “A guy who’s not as attractive as you is more likely to tell you that you are, especially in a place like New York, where so many women are skinnier, curvier, taller, and have clearer skin. And a lot of guys I’ve dated never say it.” Of course, in this city, a woman’s choice to date ugly may be more survivalist than anything else. A., every guy looks like a model, but most straight guys in New York just aren’t that gorgeous. “When I see a really attractive guy,” says Stella, “I assume he’s gay or a player and I don’t even bother talking to him.
He’s a bigger player than a good-looking guy.” “You’ve hit on it! Cheaters come in all shapes and sizes, and some good-looking guys are so loyal that they’re faithful.
” I squealed, and we jumped up and down a few times, feeling like twin Jessica Fletchers. Some women fall for ugly guys in spite of themselves—they meet them, have a bland reaction, then come to know and love them.
When I was in my mid-twenties I briefly dated a very successful, very unattractive guy I’ll call Movie Maker.
He finally dumped me because he didn’t have the emotional space for a relationship.